Just a quick note this morning to alert you to a great article in this morning's New York Times.
Entitled: Making Room for Miss Manners is a Parenting Basic, the article is written by Dr. Perri Klass, one of the best-known writer/physicians in the country.
Here's an exerpt that I particularly enjoy:
"I like Miss Manners’ approach because it lets a parent respect a child’s intellectual and emotional privacy: I’m not telling you to like your teacher; I’m telling you to treat her with courtesy. I’m not telling you that you can’t hate Tommy; I’m telling you that you can’t hit Tommy. Your feelings are your own private business; your behavior is public.
"But that first big counterintuitive lesson — that there are other people out there whose feelings must be considered — affects a child’s most basic moral development. For a child, as for an adult, manners represent a strategy for getting along in life, but also a successful intellectual engagement with the business of being human."
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Manners Matter on the Path from Child to Adult
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Wow thats interesting it can go hand in hand with the article from menstyle- Are You Raising a Douchebag? (please excuse the graphic title)
http://men.style.com/details/blogs/details/2007/11/are-you-raising.html
It's the most-emailed article on the NYTimes web site today! Must be lots of unruly little ones out there. The lesson is good one for any aspect life though.
Yes, Alexandra. I saw that this morning. The timing of the article was perfect, with the memories of the kids home for the extended winter holiday fresh in parents' minds.
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